How Your Mother's Emotional Legacy Shapes Your Life by Stephan B. Poulter-image
How Your Mother's Emotional Legacy Shapes Your Life by Stephan B. Poulter-image

How Your Mother's Emotional Legacy Shapes Your Life by Stephan B. Poulter

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Table Of Content: Introduction -- The Power of the Mother Factor Legacy: We Are All Sons and Daughters; Your First Love: Mothers and Emotional Bonding; How You Can Make Your Mother Factor: Work in Your Adult Life and in Relationships; The Perfectionist Mother -- The Unending Drive for Perfection and Love; The Unpredictable Mother -- Overcoming Depression and Anxiety; The "Me First" Mother -- Creating Your Own Life; The Best Friend Mother -- Finding Your Emotional Power; The Complete Mother -- Your Mother Factor with a Compassionate Flavour; Changing Your Script -- Starting with Your Mother's Rules -- Rewriting Your Book; Your Mother and Food -- Learning to Feed Yourself -- The Nurturing Secret; Functioning at Your Full Emotional Potential -- The Power of Your Legacy; Leaving Home -- The Big Separation -- Getting Beyond Your Mother -- -Separation/Individuation; Perfectly Imperfect -- Your Emotional Legacy -- Lose the Baggage. Publisher: Prometheus Books, Publishers ISBN-10: 1591026075 Author: Stephan B. Poulter brand: Prometheus Books, Publishers Language: English Item Height: 0.8 in Item Weight: 13.9 Oz LCCN: 2007-051920 Book Title: Mother Factor : How Your Mother's Emotional Legacy Impacts Your Life TitleLeading: The Topic: Developmental / Child, Parenting / Motherhood, Interpersonal Relations Dewey Decimal: 155.9/24 LC Classification Number: HQ759.P68 2008 gtin13: 9781591026075 Illustrator: Yes Item Width: 5.4 in Book Series: Psychology Ser. Synopsis: Whether we acknowledge it or not, our mothers leave an indelible impression on the persons we become. Our ability to function emotionally in relationships -- both personal and professional -- is based on our mothers' deep influence. In a book full of insights and wisdom based on a career of helping others, acclaimed psychologist Stephan B. Poulter shows how the mother factor can work either for or against us. The key to allowing this important legacy to work for us, says Dr. Poulter, depends on understanding our mother's pervasive influence on our life. He shows that the way we connect emotionally in adult relationships is based on the "style" of our mothers. Dr. Poulter defines the five major styles of mothering as: The Perfectionist Mother--whose family must look perfect in every way The Unpredictable Mother--whose ups and downs can create lifelong anxiety and depression in her son or daughter The "Me First" Mother--whose children come second or last The "Best Friend" Mother--who's now in vogue but can wreak havoc The Complete Mother--who provides guidance and shows compassion to her child. Although most mothers are a combination of the above, many fit more into one category than others. Even though as adults, we tend to dismiss our past as the past, we do so at risk to ourselves. Only by understanding how our mother's legacy affects us today can we transcend the mysterious anger, anxiety, depression, and shame that we feel, and achieve the kind of relationships we deserve. Dr. Poulter demonstrates how the internalized "rulebook" we inherit from our mothers is a very powerful force. These unspoken rules govern work, relationships, emotions, separation, and independence. Unless we become aware of the rules that guide our behavior, thoughts, and beliefs, we won't have the ability to make our own choices. This enlightening book will help readers connect with their past to correct self-defeating behaviors, reach their full emotional potentials, and live happier, more fulfilling lives., Whether we acknowledge it or not, our mothers leave an indelible impression on the persons we become. This enlightening book will help readers connect with their past to correct self-defeating behaviors, reach their full emotional potentials, and live happier, more fulfilling lives., Whether we acknowledge it or not, our mothers leave an indelible impression on the persons we become. Our ability to function emotionally in relationships - both personal and professional - is based on our mothers' deep influence. In a book full of insights and wisdom based on a career of helping others, acclaimed psychologist Stephan B. Poulter shows how the mother factor can work either for or against us. The key to allowing this important legacy to work for us, says Dr. Poulter, depends on understanding our mother's pervasive influence on our life. He shows that the way we connect emotionally in adult relationships is based on the "style" of our mothers. Dr. Poulter defines the five major styles of mothering as: The Perfectionist Mother-whose family must look perfect in every way The Unpredictable Mother-whose ups and downs can create lifelong anxiety and depression in her son or daughter The "Me First" Mother-whose children come second or last The "Best Friend" Mother-who's now in vogue but can wreak havoc The Complete Mother-who provides guidance and shows compassion to her child. Although most mothers are a combination of the above, many fit more into one category than others. Even though as adults, we tend to dismiss our past as the past, we do so at risk to ourselves. Only by understanding how our mother's legacy affects us today can we transcend the mysterious anger, anxiety, depression, and shame that we feel, and achieve the kind of relationships we deserve. Dr. Poulter demonstrates how the internalized "rulebook" we inherit from our mothers is a very powerful force. These unspoken rules govern work, relationships, emotions, separation, and independence. Unless we become aware of the rules that guide our behavior, thoughts, and beliefs, we won't have the ability to make our own choices. This enlightening book will help readers connect with their past to correct self-defeating behaviors, reach their full emotional potentials, and live happier, more fulfilling lives., Whether we acknowledge it or not, our mothers leave an indelible impression on the persons we become. Our ability to function emotionally in relationships - both personal and professional - is based on our mothers' deep influence. This book shows how the mother factor can work either for or against us., Whether we acknowledge it or not, our mothers leave an indelible impression on the persons we become. Our ability to function emotionally in relationships - both personal and professional - is based on our mothers' deep influence. In a book full of insights and wisdom based on a career of helping others, acclaimed psychologist Stephan B. Poulter shows how the mother factor can work either for or against us. The key to allowing this important legacy to work for us, says Dr Poulter, depends on understanding our mother's pervasive influence on our life. He shows that the way we connect emotionally in adult relationships is based on the "style" of our mothers.Dr Poulter defines the five major styles of mothering as: The Perfectionist Mother - whose family must look perfect in every way; The Unpredictable Mother - whose ups and downs can create life-long anxiety and depression in her son or daughter; The "Me First" Mother - whose children come second or last; The "Best Friend" Mother - who's now in vogue but can wreak havoc; The Complete Mother - who provides guidance and shows compassion to her child.Although most mothers are a combination of the above, many fit more into one category than others. Even though as adults, we tend to dismiss our past as the past, we do so at risk to ourselves. Only by understanding how our mother's legacy affects us today can we transcend the mysterious anger, anxiety, depression, and shame that we feel, and achieve the kind of relationships we deserve. Dr Poulter demonstrates how the internalised "rulebook" we inherit from our mothers is a very powerful force. These unspoken rules govern work, relationships, emotions, separation, and independence. Unless we become aware of the rules that guide our behaviour, thoughts, and beliefs, we won't have the ability to make our own choices. This enlightening book will help readers connect with their past to correct self-defeating behaviours, reach their full emotional potentials, and live happier, more fulfilling lives., Whether we acknowledge it or not, our mothers leave an indelible impression on the persons we become. Our ability to function emotionally in relationships - both personal and professional - is based on our mothers' deep influence. In a book full of insights and wisdom based on a career of helping others, acclaimed psychologist Stephan B. Poulter shows how the mother factor can work either for or against us. The key to allowing this important legacy to work for us, says Dr. Poulter, depends on understanding our mother's pervasive influence on our life. He shows that the way we connect emotionally in adult relationships is based on the "style" of our mothers.Dr. Poulter defines the five major styles of mothering as: The Perfectionist Mother-whose family must look perfect in every wayThe Unpredictable Mother-whose ups and downs can create lifelong anxiety and depression in her son or daughterThe "Me First" Mother-whose children come second or lastThe "Best Friend" Mother-who's now in vogue but can wreak havocThe Complete Mother-who provides guidance and shows compassion to her child.Although most mothers are a combination of the above, many fit more into one category than others. Even though as adults, we tend to dismiss our past as the past, we do so at risk to ourselves. Only by understanding how our mother's legacy affects us today can we transcend the mysterious anger, anxiety, depression, and shame that we feel, and achieve the kind of relationships we deserve.Dr. Poulter demonstrates how the internalized "rulebook" we inherit from our mothers is a very powerful force. These unspoken rules govern work, relationships, emotions, separation, and independence. Unless we become aware of the rules that guide our behavior, thoughts, and beliefs, we won't have the ability to make our own choices. This enlightening book will help readers connect with their past to correct self-defeating behaviors, reach their full emotional potentials, and live happier, more fulfilling lives. Format: Trade Paperback Intended Audience: Trade Number of Pages: 352 Pages Dewey Edition: 22 Item Length: 8.3 in Genre: Family & Relationships, Psychology Publication Year: 2008 ISBN-13: 9781591026075

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Further Details Title: The Mother Factor Condition: New Description: Whether we acknowledge it or not, our mothers leave an indelible impression on the persons we become. Our ability to function emotionally in relationships - both personal and professional - is based on our mothers' deep influence. In a book full of insights and wisdom based on a career of helping others, acclaimed psychologist Stephan B. Poulter shows how the mother factor can work either for or against us. The key to allowing this important legacy to work for us, says Dr. Poulter, depends on understanding our mother's pervasive influence on our life. He shows that the way we connect emotionally in adult relationships is based on the "style" of our mothers.Dr. Poulter defines the five major styles of mothering as:The Perfectionist Mother-whose family must look perfect in every wayThe Unpredictable Mother-whose ups and downs can create lifelong anxiety and depression in her son or daughterThe "Me First" Mother-whose children come second or lastThe "Best Friend" Mother-who's now in vogue but can wreak havocThe Complete Mother-who provides guidance and shows compassion to her child.Although most mothers are a combination of the above, many fit more into one category than others. Even though as adults, we tend to dismiss our past as the past, we do so at risk to ourselves. Only by understanding how our mother's legacy affects us today can we transcend the mysterious anger, anxiety, depression, and shame that we feel, and achieve the kind of relationships we deserve.Dr. Poulter demonstrates how the internalized "rulebook" we inherit from our mothers is a very powerful force. These unspoken rules govern work, relationships, emotions, separation, and independence. Unless we become aware of the rules that guide our behavior, thoughts, and beliefs, we won't have the ability to make our own choices. This enlightening book will help readers connect with their past to correct self-defeating behaviors, reach their full emotional potentials, and live happier, more fulfilling lives. EAN: 9781591026075 Format: Paperback Author: Stephan B. Poulter Country/Region of Manufacture: US ISBN: 9781591026075 Item Height: 216mm Item Length: 140mm ISBN-10: 1591026075 Genre: Society & Culture Item Width: 13mm Item Weight: 454g Publisher: Prometheus Books Release Date: 03/01/2008 Language: English Subtitle: How Your Mother's Emotional Legacy Impacts Your Life Release Year: 2008 Missing Information? Please contact us if any details are missing and where possible we will add the information to our listing.

  1. This book is a game-changer! Dr. Poulter brilliantly breaks down how our mothers shape our emotional blueprint in relationships. Packed with eye-opening insights, it helps you understand patterns holding you back while offering tools to grow. A must-read for anyone wanting deeper self-awareness and healthier connections—highly recommend for personal growth!

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